Listen without interruption. Your active listening paves the way for conversations about topics that concern you.
Express love daily.
Ask open ended questions! Don’t assume that your kid “knows” that you don’t want them to use. Tell them often!
Do fun activities together as a family.
Be clear that you disapprove of drinking (and drug use) and expect your child to delay alcohol use until 21.
Eat dinner together.
Establish a “no use” policy and communicate it clearly with your child.
Listen with love and empathy.